Outgrowing Vanilla: Discovering the Taboo Culture of Dominance and Submission (Volume 1)

Outgrowing Vanilla is a guide to finding yourself, learning where you fit in relationships and how you can successfully convert your fantasies into reality with a consensual partner. Get to know the terminologies, the names of those toys and apparatus you see in the Adult Stores, and learn how common your kink really is. With worldwide access to online dating, adult sites and web cams, the non-traditional dating game has evolved. People are now sharing their "dirty" secrets because the anonymity of the internet offers a sense of freedom and protection. But why feel the need to hide in the first place? Outgrowing Vanilla sheds light on the dark rooms of the imagination, allowing its readers to identify with their desires, own them and live them freely, without shame. It is a How-To, Self-Help, Relationship book all rolled into one easy to read and understand volume. From the writer comes a lifetime of experience, advice and candidness rarely seen but much needed in the world of relationships. From finding your place to learning how you can help your partner shine in theirs, Outgrowing Vanilla provides the answers to the questions you've been afraid to ask. It comes complete with a Q&A section with contributions from the curious, lifestyle newbies and those who have been living in their natural role all along. "Ask Ma'am Landers" is full of wisdom that guides the reader through their journey in an encouraging yet matter-of-fact way. With Outgrowing Vanilla in your hands, you can be the partner you have always wanted to be. You will finally be able to understand how your brain works, and why your past relationships have failed. Step through the door, and feel the freedom of your natural role.